My husband told me that his mistress reminded him of me back in the day… I can’t stop thinking about it

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband had the cheek to tell me that his mistress reminded him of me – the me from 30 years ago.

I am 58 and my husband is 59. We have been together for 32 years.

We were very much in love and led a carefree existence back then.

We went on to have two, now grown-up children and I always thought we were happy together.

My husband landed a fantastic job five years ago that often takes him to Dubai.

I had no idea anything was wrong...