My husband is obsessed with idea of me having ‘massage’ from another man while he watches

DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T accept the idea of having a “massage” from another man while my husband watches – but he is obsessed with it.

I was hoping he’d forget about his fantasy in time. But no matter how much I try to put him off, he keeps coming back to it.

He actually wants to watch me getting the massage. And although he hasn’t spelled it out, I know in his imagination it leads to sex.

The thought of being with another man while my husband watches is so bizarre to me.