My boyfriend’s home has a horrendous stench and he never cleans it

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend never cleans his messy home.

Every time I walk into the house, I’m greeted with a horrendous stench.

I can’t relax until I’ve given it a clean and grabbed the vacuum cleaner.

We’re both 30, and I can’t bear being surrounded by filth, so I clean up his kitchen and bathroom because he doesn’t care.

I’m often cleaning up thick grime that has been there for days, even weeks.

However, I’m beginning to realise that I’m effectively working as his cleaner for free.