Swanson: Lilia Vu just wants to have fun

It’s so simple. (No, it’s not.)

Feel good, play good. (But what if you don’t?)

What if, for you, one bad review echoes louder than 100 that were glowing? Or one insult outweighs 100 compliments? One mean tweet? One wrong answer? One bad shot? What if you’re just normal?

“It’s something we battle all the time,” said Alicia Um Holmes, UCLA’s women’s golf coach. “They can hit 100 great shots and latch onto that one bad shot, that’s the one that destroys their confidence. Which is crazy...