I’m struggling to keep an erection since I started sleeping with new boyfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been struggling to keep an erection since I started sleeping with my new boyfriend and I’m becoming increasingly anxious about it.

I’ve tried so many different things and every time, when it comes to the crunch, I flop. It’s so embarrassing.

I’m 32, my boyfriend is 28 and we’ve been together for just over a month. Everything else has been perfect.

I’ve never had any issues before but every time we try to have sex I go soft.

At first I...