I feel gutted after finding flirty texts from my girlfriend to her ex – and they were planning to meet

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner insists she has stopped talking to her ex but she was definitely flirting with him on text. I feel gutted.

I’m a 31-year-old man, my girlfriend is 29.

We have been together for three years.

We used to have a really good sex life and had sex at least three times a week.

But recently she hasn’t been bothered and our sex life has dwindled.

We haven’t been intimate in any way for weeks.

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