My boyfriend and I broke up six months ago, but we still sleep with each other

DEAR DEIDRE: Since my ex-boyfriend and I broke up six months ago, we have slept together several times.

He told me he still loves me but he doesn’t want to get back together, and I think he’s seeing other women. Am I being used?

I’m 24 and he’s 25. We were together for six years, and were each other’s first serious relationship.

Things fell apart because we kept arguing, but we have stayed friends.

I would do anything to get him back, but he says it’s over for good.