When I was struggling after my husband’s betrayal, you helped me pick myself up

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I found out my husband had cheated on me with several escorts, I was devastated.

I’d believed us to be truly happy and didn’t suspect a thing. 

I’m 39 and he’s 40. We’d been married for 10 years and have two children.

He didn’t even apologise for his infidelities, instead blaming me for not being a good enough wife and not keeping him interested. He told me I’d let myself go.

We split up but I was finding it really hard to move on. Part...