I’m worried my partner has a secret dark side

DEAR DEIDRE: I THINK my partner has a dark side I know nothing about. I keep catching him looking through my wardrobe.

I am 42 and my partner is 43. We have been together for over three years. When I confront him he just says he is looking for something.

If I visit friends or family without him, I notice that my lingerie and other certain items on my dressing table have moved.

I have tried to discuss this with one of my exes as we are really good friends.