I love my fiancee but she doesn’t turn me on

DEAR DEIDRE: I’m getting married later this year but I’m worried about the lack of sex in our relationship. I don’t think we are normal.

I’m 39 and my fiancée is 31. We met at church and she is my first and last girlfriend. We’ve been dating for two years and she’s wonderful.

We were both virgins when it came to having a sexual relationship and we’ve had sex a handful of times.

I play five-a-side football and the guys always seem to be talking about sex and how many times they’ve done it.