I’m disgusted by my own husband

DEAR DEIDRE: My partner has completely let himself go, to the point where he often doesn’t bother to brush his teeth.

He makes my skin crawl.

We’ve been together for 10 years and we have two kids but I haven’t had sex with him for almost three years.

He’s 37 and I’m 34. I spend all my time cooking, washing, cleaning and fixing up the garden.

My partner works as a lorry driver but at weekends, he doesn’t move from the sofa.

We started sleeping separately...