My situationship ghosted me for someone else

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER months of mixed signals and constant back and forths, the man I love has ghosted me for someone else.

I’m 27, he’s 29 and we’ve been on and off dating for nine months. 

We first met at a mutual friend’s birthday party and had instant chemistry. 

For months we went on great dates, had fantastic sex, and even started to meet each other’s friends. I was falling head over heels for him and thought he was feeling the same way.

However, he eventually started disappearing from time to time.