DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband went into hospital for a routine operation on his knee and never woke up again.
His sudden death has completely devastated me. I am 71. My husband was 73.
We had been married for almost 50 years and were going to have a big celebration later in the year.
He was generally fit and well, but he had been complaining a few days before his operation that he felt a bit unwell.
I blame myself for his death, for not listening to him.
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