My wife is not interested in having sex, I have tried everything to change her mind

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE tried everything I can to get my wife interested in sex but nothing works.

I’m 59 and she’s 57. We have been married for 30 years but lately she has no interest in sex whatsoever.

My wife is in good shape for her age and I always compliment her on her figure and her appearance generally.

It makes it worse in a way because I really still fancy her after all these years.

I have tried cooking her favourite meals, lost a bit of weight and bought new clothes...