I have been having sex with friends mum – now she wants a divorce and to run away with me

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been having great sex with my friend’s mum, and she wants to get a divorce and run away with me.

The problem is I don’t want to take our relationship any further.

I am a guy of 34 and my friend’s mum is 51.

I genuinely liked her but as time has gone on I don’t see us together in the future.

I’ve realised I want to meet someone my age who I can have children with.

The thought of letting her down is stressing me out.

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