DEAR DEIDRE: Years ago I slept around, and now it feels like I’m being punished for it.
My boyfriend keeps meeting guys I had sex with in the past, and it’s making him paranoid and jealous. He’s changed his attitude towards me, and I feel like I’m losing him.
I’m 29 and he’s 30. We’ve been together for nine months, I really love him, and can see myself settling down with him.
I live in a small town. When I was in my late teens and early 20s, I went through a wild phase.