I want my husband to write me into his will – but he refuses to put it in writing

DEAR DEIDRE: AM I asking too much to expect my husband to write me into his will?

He seems to think he doesn’t need one and has reassured me I’ll be fine and taken care of if he goes before me.

But I’m desperate to have it in writing.

I’m 70 and he’s 72. We’ve been together for 35 years and have four children and several grandchildren.

We’re happily married but I can’t help but worry what will happen when he goes. I want legal protection.

We have a house...