My in-laws called me a gold-digger when all I want to do is grieve for my partner

DEAR DEIDRE: MY in-laws have accused me of being a gold-digger.

I was with my partner for 30 years until he passed away last year from cancer.

Sadly, he spent his last few months in hospital.

I am 63. I spent every day with him but right at the end I popped home for a shower.

Devastatingly, by the time I got back he’d passed away.

His family have since said that I didn’t care for him.

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