My wife expects me to live a lie because of her religious family 

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife is a secret lesbian and I’m sick of living a lie.

I’m angry she married me knowing she preferred women. It has left me miserable and sexually unfulfilled.

I’m 48 and she’s 52. We have been married for 18 years and have a 16-year-old son.

When we met I wasn’t very experienced and I had no idea she didn’t really find me attractive, but was using me for respectability.

She comes from a strict Christian family, who would have disowned her had they known her true sexual preferences.