My cheating husband issued me with a cheeky ultimatum

DEAR DEIDRE: My husband left me for another woman but says he’ll return if I show him affection.

Not only does he expect me to forget that he had a sexual affair, betrayed me and deserted our family, he now wants me to show him ‘he is loved with lots of cuddles and kisses’.

This feels like I am being blamed and he’s issuing me with an impossible ultimatum. 

I was devastated when he first moved out saying he needed a break and was going to stay with a friend.