Husband lied about finishing his affair

DEAR DEIDRE: Forgiving my husband for his sexual affair wasn’t easy but after months of rebuilding the trust I finally felt we were back on track – but I have discovered they never stopped having sex.

He’d gone above and beyond to reassure me but the only thing that changed was I thought they had finished.

I’m 38, my husband is 42 and we’ve been married for nine years. We have two daughters together, one is two and the other is five. 

He often worked late and at weekends...