I don’t know what to do next after my husband finally admitted cheating – he denied it for 10 years

DEAR DEIDRE: IN the heat of an argument my husband admitted he’d cheated on me – after ten years of denying anything had happened.

We were arguing because he thought a colleague of mine had been overly friendly and so he didn’t want me to go to work drinks.

My husband said he “knew what men were like”, and something about the comment made me ask again about an incident ten years ago.

This time he admitted the truth but I’m devastated that after so long of thinking everything was fine...