My husband’s porn type is nothing like me 

DEAR DEIDRE: Since I discovered that my husband pleasures himself while watching porn, I have felt so unattractive.

He does it whenever he gets the chance – even when I’m in the next room.

We have been married for 15 years and have three children. I’m 45 and he is 47.

Over the last few years, he has grown distant and gone off sex. I knew he wasn’t having an affair – he works from home and doesn’t go out in the evenings – so I suspected he must be watching porn.

When I got hold of his laptop...