First love has got better in bed and with age, now I am on the brink of leaving wife

DEAR DEIDRE: Reuniting with my first love and having an affair with her has shown me how unhappily married I am.

I want to leave my wife, but we have two young children. What should I do? I’m 38 and my wife of 11 years is 39.

A few months ago, on social media, I happened across the woman who was my first serious girlfriend.

We dated for three years as teenagers, only breaking up when we went to different universities.

She was my first everything and the woman I lost my virginity to.