My son’s controlling & rude wife is ruining his life

DEAR DEIDRE: I don’t know how to help my son, whose life is being ruined by his wife.

I am his 58-year-old dad.

My son is 35 and his wife is 33.

They met at university and whenever she came to say, rather than trying to set a good impression, she drank heavily and was disruptive and rude.

My son was going to leave her, but then she became pregnant.

Things became so bad between them he had a breakdown, but still they struggled on.

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