May is quickly approaching, meaning that if you’re even somewhat plugged into fashion or culture, you know the Met Gala is looming. Maybe you’ve spent the past first Monday of May barely paying attention via social media or passively reposting your favorite looks come Tuesday morning, and hey, we don’t blame you. The Met Gala takes a lot of prep. But if your New Year’s resolution was to be more engaged or prepared, this counts — and don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.