I was so attracted to my new lover – but now I’m realising it’s just a rebound effect

DEAR DEIDRE: At 64 years old, you’d think I would know better but I’ve completely humiliated myself by becoming utterly obsessed with the first man I dated after separating from my husband.

I was married for 38 years but my husband and I grew apart so when he suggested we go our different ways, I readily agreed.

That was nearly two years ago and I recently met another man, who I was really attracted to.

He is 65. He told me I was beautiful and he really liked me too.