I was completely blindsided to find that my husband had been sexting his ex amid my battle with ADHD

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER getting my ADHD diagnosis, I hoped my husband and I could get our marriage back on track. But finding sexts on his phone blew any chance of that.

We had been struggling for years because he felt shut out by me and frustrated by my inability to make a decision on anything.

When we finally got confirmation I had ADHD it explained why I was so often distracted and trapped in cycles of procrastination.

I am 37, he is 39 and we have been together for 12 years.