My partner is coming in and out of my life like a yo-yo

DEAR DEIDRE: After more than twenty years together, my partner has met a new woman, and now comes in and out of my life like a yo-yo.

While I know I deserve much better, I don’t know how I’d manage without him so I put up with this unsettling situation.

I’m 50, my partner is 54 and until a few months ago we had a happy relationship.

Everything changed when out of nowhere he packed a bag and told me he was going to stay with a friend.

The next day I heard...