My husband has been leading a double life

DEAR DEIDRE: After ten happy years together I’ve discovered that my husband has been leading a double life.

Not only does he have a secret girlfriend, but they’ve trying for a baby through IVF together too.

My heart is shattered and I don’t know where to go from here.
I’m 36 and my husband is 39.

A year ago I was offered a job that meant I’d be travelling a lot for work. While I was initially apprehensive my husband convinced me to accept it.

At the time I assumed he was trying to be supportive...