You helped me after my husband died suddenly

DEAR DEIDRE: After my husband died suddenly – and very young – I really struggled to cope with my grief.

I couldn’t concentrate at work and I kept bursting into tears.

I’d lie awake at night wondering if the hospital could have done more to save him after he was hit by a car.

At 44, I felt angry too that I was left alone to bring up our kids, who are 13 and 11. My husband was only 45.

I wrote to you and you suggested I join Widowed And Young, a support group...