My husband watched porn whilst we were having sex – I’m devastated

DEAR DEIDRE: I THOUGHT my husband was answering a call during sex, but instead he started watching porn on his phone and continued the deed.

I feel so humiliated, I haven’t been able to speak to him about it yet.

I’m 43, he’s 47 and we’ve been married for 18 years.

We’ve always had a great relationship and been really happy, but recently I’ve noticed he seems completely disinterested in sex.

Instead of a regular kiss and cuddle, he’s stopped touching me and goes straight to sleep in bed.