I cheated on a paternity test to save my relationship, now I need to know the truth

DEAR DEIDRE: REGRETFULLY, I cheated on a paternity test to save my relationship. But now I want to know if I’m a dad.

I’m 26. A few years ago, I had a brief relationship with a woman who I met at a party.

After that ended, I tried online dating and met my perfect woman.

She was sexy, bubbly and funny, and made it clear that she loved my lack of “emotional baggage”. She said she’d never date a man with kids.

Everything was great. We’d just got engaged when...